ne14cookies JU Cookie Monster Reged: 06/24/06 Posts: 24353 What I am hearing coming from him is that it is all about him... I am going to bet, you are very attractive and it is a boost to his ego to keep you 09/02/17 09:19 PM Edit Reply Quote feeding his ego but pursuing you. I had a man in a similar situation after he had pursued me and told me he was leaving and not interested anymore, send me a letter being mad at me that I still didn't see him before he left for one last good bye .... really? was he kidding? I bruised his poor ego by not crying, begging him to stay. No need for a long drawn out good bye.... I moved on instead. He didn't like that. I would say to yourself... You are that wonderful, that attractive .. Accept he made the mistake but found out too late. His loss, your gain! My guess is this type of man would become an emotional abuser. If any any time a man has you doubting your self esteem, run. That is the first step in someone ultimately gaining control over another human being. Been there... it is a painful lesson. Mark Thread Read Hide Thread Print Report Remind Me Link

Entire thread (Refresh) Subject Posted by Posted on OT: Dating Advice LS14 09/02/17 05:31 PM My opinion for what it is worth is that some people get turned on by social media more so than real life. You said..................... Ivory_mist 09/04/17 08:04 PM He did admit after the first time teach14 09/05/17 08:28 PM When some men find out you like them they run..I don't think he is ready for a relationship....he just enjoys the chase and when he has caught her, he Ivory_mist 09/06/17 07:59 PM I wouldn't waste my time even wondering what he thought. He would keep string you along if he didn't leave. Wouldn't even respond to him. NT Guppy 09/02/17 06:32 PM What bugs me is that on both occasions, LS14 09/02/17 07:06 PM Did you ever wonder if he was gay? NT TrinaE 09/03/17 11:55 AM Haha! He is far from it! teach14 09/04/17 05:47 PM In a word, yes. When I read your original post, my first thought also that this is all about his ego. Recommend you listen to Guppy. NT ne14cookies 09/02/17 07:29 PM I just dont believe its all about ego. He knows for sure how I feel and I like him, I'm not the one who ever hurt him, so why hurt me? LS14 09/02/17 08:00 PM Would he care to ask that if he thought I was unattractive? I know I'm not, but I can't help but think thats why he isn't pursing me. LS14 09/02/17 07:48 PM What I am hearing coming from him is that it is all about him... I am going to bet, you are very attractive and it is a boost to his ego to keep you ne14cookies 09/02/17 09:19 PM Ok, it's me LS14. I was having log in issues and teach14 09/04/17 05:45 PM Well I am sorry you feel hurt. Just have to give it some time to "mourn the loss" so to speak and allow yourself to go through the process. Keep in ne14cookies 09/04/17 07:15 PM I will keep in touch, cookies. Thank you. Tomorrow teach14 09/04/17 08:24 PM

UBB.threads™